A friend of mine used to have this saying, "I see who you are so clearly, that I cannot hear what you say." He was always observing folks. Some people would have bling and live in a hut. Others would come from well-to-do families and try to dress like they were as poor as the other young folks we grew up with. It didn't matter how anyone dressed. We could pretty much tell their status: present, past, and future by their behavior. What are you doing? What is it saying to others? Do you see me? Do you know the True you? Do you see the REAL me?